Spanda webinar

Discover the Divine Pulsation at the Heart of Tantra: A Journey into Spanda Ever feel the universe thrum? That’s Spanda — the sacred pulse of Existence. Join us for a transformative 90-minute webinar where ancient wisdom meets embodied practice. Discover how non-dual tantra reveals reality as a dynamic dance of stillness and vibration. We’ll explore:🪷 […]

Debunking the drama triangle

Neotantrikas tout Karpman’s drama triangle as a profound tool to defuse relationship strife. I feel that it is a dangerous framework when it is weaponised by abusers and predators to deflect blame and dodge accountability. I first encountered the drama triangle in a conscious dance event, in which Ya’acov Darling-Khan encouraged us to embody these […]

Tandava Takedown – Oh Dear, Odier!

Various lineages of neotantra orient themselves by the spiritual patriarch Daniel Odier, promoting a form of dance he called “tandava”. My research* and personal experience suggests that “Odier“ is peddling a colonised distortion of sacred teachings that is causing spiritual and relational harm in ways that are subtle but real and growing as his teachings […]

Couples Coaching

I FEEL SUCH JOY AND GRATITUDE FOR THE OPPORTUNITY TO SHARE THE SACRED PRACTICES OF TANTRA AND TAOISM WITH SEEKERS. RECENTLY, I HAVE BEEN BLESSED TO BE ABLE TO OFFER THIS WORK TOGETHER WITH A BEAUTIFUL CONSORT WHOSE COMPASSIONATE WISDOM AND SENSITIVITY HAS LENT THIS YOGA OF DELIGHT EVEN MORE DEPTH AND REACH. THIS IS […]

Why I Voice critical perspectives of Neo-tantra

Recently, on a conscious sexuality whatsapp group where I have become notorious for my sometimes abrasive and cutting commentary, I received a challenging and critical remark from a fellow tantrika when I dismissed a poorly-researched and fanciful youtube video on kundalini – circulated by someone who has espoused noxious antisemitism and holocaust denialism. The remark […]