critique | Dancing Dragon Tantra

Debunking the drama triangle

Posted on April 11, 2025April 12, 2025 by Flo

Neotantrikas tout Karpman’s drama triangle as a profound tool to defuse relationship strife. I feel that it is a dangerous framework when it is weaponised by abusers and predators to deflect blame and dodge accountability. I first encountered the drama triangle in a conscious dance event, in which Ya’acov Darling-Khan encouraged us to embody these […]

Why I Voice critical perspectives of Neo-tantra

Posted on October 13, 2022October 14, 2022 by Flo

Recently, on a conscious sexuality whatsapp group where I have become notorious for my sometimes abrasive and cutting commentary, I received a challenging and critical remark from a fellow tantrika when I dismissed a poorly-researched and fanciful youtube video on kundalini – circulated by someone who has espoused noxious antisemitism and holocaust denialism. The remark […]