Spacious Stillness

Appreciating the spacious stillness of my own company as I recover from another night of #insomnia.The fragility of mental and emotional #peace is consistently highlighted by these occasional events of nervous system #dysregulation triggered by relational #trauma compounded over multiple instances of #abandonment and #betrayal in narcissistic interpretations of non-monogamy.It is inculcating a #sensitivity to the #delicate and interwoven nature of intimate #relating - how easily the #weave is torn - and the #vulnerability of our human nervous systems, as well as deep respect for the depth and apparent intractability of relational wounds.It also is eliciting deep #gratitude for those close to me who are weaving their #love into this interdependent process of #healing and co-regulation.🐉#tantra#polyamory#nonmonogamy #polyvagaltheory#recovery#time#rest#sleep

APPRECIATING THE SPACIOUS STILLNESS OF MY OWN COMPANY AS I RECOVER FROM ANOTHER NIGHT OF #INSOMNIA.

THE FRAGILITY OF MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL #PEACE IS CONSISTENTLY HIGHLIGHTED BY THESE OCCASIONAL EVENTS OF NERVOUS SYSTEM #DYSREGULATION TRIGGERED BY RELATIONAL #TRAUMA COMPOUNDED OVER MULTIPLE INSTANCES OF #ABANDONMENT AND #BETRAYAL IN NARCISSISTIC INTERPRETATIONS OF NON-MONOGAMY.

IT IS INCULCATING A #SENSITIVITY TO THE #DELICATE AND INTERWOVEN NATURE OF INTIMATE #RELATING – HOW EASILY THE #WEAVE IS TORN – AND THE #VULNERABILITY OF OUR HUMAN NERVOUS SYSTEMS, AS WELL AS DEEP RESPECT FOR THE DEPTH AND APPARENT INTRACTABILITY OF RELATIONAL WOUNDS.

IT ALSO IS ELICITING DEEP #GRATITUDE FOR THOSE CLOSE TO ME WHO ARE WEAVING THEIR #LOVE INTO THIS INTERDEPENDENT PROCESS OF #HEALING AND CO-REGULATION.🐉

#TANTRA #POLYAMORY #NONMONOGAMY #POLYVAGALTHEORY #RECOVERY #TIME #REST #SLEEP

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